Charity begins at home with Home-Start this Christmas

These are just some of the comments left by parents in a recent poll conducted by Home-Start Arun, Worthing and Adur (AWA). 92% said they would be having a basic Christmas this year and over half will be relying on a foodbank for essentials.

Home-Start AWA has been a constant presence in our community for over 22 years - supporting over 2600 vulnerable families, giving over 6000 local children a better start and chance in life.

But the challenges these families face are as tough as they have ever been. Already facing difficulties such as living in temporary housing, bereavement, isolation, domestic abuse or poor physical and mental health, parents are also working hard to make ends meet, foregoing family time and for some, the basics in life.

Says a supported mum; "Our first ever mortgage is crippling us. My husband works 50 hours a week and I work two evenings and all weekend. We rarely see each other or have any life together as a family."

Bridget Richardson, CEO of the charity for over 15 years says; "People think Sussex is affluent but we have some of the most deprived areas in the country and parents are dealing with some very challenging issues. We support with all aspects of family life, whether financial, illness, separation, or domestic abuse. Our support is multi-layered with 1-1 support in the home, over the phone, counselling or Group sessions."

"For a dad who was recently supported through the loss of his wife, it was how to work the washing machine, budget for his family and how to plait his daughters hair, whilst having someone to talk to about his grief."

Atanya talks of the support she received. "My son Hayden, has a life-limiting condition, Cystic Fibrosis and my daughter Ella, has a rare genetic neurological disorder called Aicardi Syndrome, meaning she'll face life-long challenges with her disabilities.

Alone most of the week as my husband works away, trying to balance finances, hospital appointments, school, nursery and two highly dependent children is physically, mentally and financially challenging.

Hayden's nursery recommended Home-Start. Jo, my volunteer is amazing. She helps me get jobs done, plays with the kids, helps me leave the house and connect with others. She enables me to carve out a bit of time for myself without feeling guilty. She eases my loneliness, offers advice and let's me offload."

Home-Start AWA recently launched their Christmas appeal "All I want for Christmas...is a happy home." Says Lucy Knowles, Fundraiser for the charity; "Just £25 can provide warm clothes, Christmas food, bedding and presents for children. Our volunteers can give practical and emotional support in families home across the region - from advice on how to stay warm, sourcing foodbank vouchers and spreading a bit of Christmas magic for the children."

If you wish to help Home-Start support these children and their families this festive season, you can donate to their appeal by visiting their website www.home-startawa.org.uk or phoning 01903 889707.